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Lessons Learned Helping A Charity

The past two days I was  part of a radio-a-thon to raise money for a charity that helps sick children and their families.  It was a rewarding experience that taught me a lot.

First, no matter how bad you think you have it someone has it worse.  The stories I heard about heartache, pain, and difficult decisions were the unfortunate proof.  I wouldn’t want to trade my troubles (real or imagined) for anyone else’s.  They’re mine so I must be the best equipped to deal with them.

The second thing that I realized is that people really can be generous if it’s a cause they can understand and believe in.

We were raising money for 2 things.  To have teddy bears to give to to every sick child entering the hospital.  That’s easy to understand.  A sick kid is going to a scary place for treatments and tests that aren’t fun.  Giving them a teddy bear is a great and caring idea.  It’s something soft and warm they can hold on to.  We heard stories from medical professionals that said in some cases giving a hysterical child a teddy bear works better at calming them down than medicine.  Makes sense to me.

The other thing the money is used for is to fill a compassion fund.  This fund isn’t overseen by a super huge committee.  There aren’t layers of bureaucracy.  It’s accessible to doctors, nurses, and social workers who can use the funds to show compassion to the families of those in the hospital that are in need.  Maybe it’s for a tank of gas because funds are tight, a meal for the parents, or lodging when a child has to go to a hospital that’s farther away.

The stat we heard was having a child in the hospital increases your household expenses by 30 percent.  That much additional expense coupled with the potential loss of one of the parent’s jobs because they’re staying with the child in the hospital and you can see how it could throw the family budget into a tailspin.  It’s because of this that this compassion fund exists.

Helping out by contributing to a fund like this is easy to understand. It’s local.  It’s what we would do for a neighbor.  That’s why I think this fund has been successful and continues to grow.  We need more things like this.  Where we don’t depend on the government but instead on each other. No red tape.  No regulations.  No political affiliations.  Just people helping people.

I’m proud to say we beat last year’s total and raised over $105,000.  At times it was mentally draining but definitely rewarding.  It made me realize how small my problems are and that my daughters needed big hugs when I got home.

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Stop Wasting Your Commute

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According to the U.S. Census Bureau the average commute time in America is 25.5 minutes.  Mine is higher than that coming in at 40 minutes each way.  That’s an hour and twenty minutes of my day spent sitting and accomplishing nothing more than listening to the radio or podcasts and making the occasional phone call.

Tom Corely’s “20 Things The Rich Do Everyday” got me to rethink my commute. As part of the list Corely notes “63% of wealthy listen to audio books during commute to work vs. 5% for poor people”.  This simple statement got me thinking about how I could better use my commute.

I haven’t started listening to audiobooks yet but I have used the time to work on another of the habits that Corely shared: “80% of wealthy are focused on accomplishing some single goal. Only 12% of the poor do this”.

My goal of creating this website and blog was realized after quietly thinking about it while commuting.  Now I spend some of this daily time thinking about blog topics.

So, how can you stop wasting your commute?  Turn off the radio.  I know that might sound shocking coming from a guy who makes his living in the radio industry but seriously, turn off the radio for part of your commute.

We have become a society of content consumers (radio, television, internet, etc.) but are lacking in creating our own content or thoughts.

The first thing I’d suggest you do during your now quiet commute time is pray.  Spend some time talking to God.  Don’t worry about saying the words out loud and looking crazy to the person stopped next to you at the stop light.  God knows what’s on your heart and mind.  Simply collecting your thoughts and lifting them up to God silently is all you need to do.

Another thing to do with your quiet time is to form your own opinions on current events.  We are bombarded with the opinions of other people (talk show hosts & talking heads) on a constant basis.

Many times we take those opinions on as our own without really giving them much thought as to how they relate to our lives and our faith.

My final suggestion would be to use the silence to reflect on your goals and how you can achieve them.

Don’t have any goals?  Now would be a really good time to think about what you’d like to accomplish in the next week, month, and year.

I’m starting to rediscover just how much you can get done if you have a goal in mind. From my own experience I can tell you that spending a little quiet time each day where you can just let your mind wander is very calming.  It’ll take your stress down a notch.

So go ahead.  Try it.  Turn off the radio for part of your commute.  Just remember to turn it back on.  I still have to support my family.

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You Gotta Start Somewhere

I’ve been thinking about starting a blog for quite awhile but there was always a nagging voice in my head telling me reasons not to do it.  “You’ll never be able to figure out how to get it on the web.  It’ll take too much time.  No one will care what you have to say.” This is what the negative voice would say each time I thought about it.  I finally came to the conclusion that it didn’t matter whether anyone would read or care about my blog as long as I had fun figuring it out.

Once the decision was made to start this blog I did a lot of research.  The one bit of advice that kept popping up was to write about what you are passionate about.  That’s how I came up with the title, “Faith, Family, and Technology”.

Faith came first because it’s the most important.  In anything, if you lead with faith the rest will fall into place.

Next came family… because after faith they matter most.  My wife and I love being involved in our daughters’ lives and seeing them grow, learn, and become the people God had planned.

Lastly, I went with technology.  I love gadgets, gizmos, remotes, and all things Android.  In fact I’ll probably have a post or two on Android tips, tricks, and app reviews.

It appears my first blog is in the books.  Take that negative voice in my head.

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